If someone says to you, “I don’t know what good people are, no one likes me,” another says, “I know, they all hate me.” You wonder if there really is a person who is made to be hated or if it is his character that makes others hate him.
On the other hand, you also find someone with whom everyone gets along, children, old people, peers, and you find that he is everyone’s friend. Some say that it is his own blood, others say that it is his beloved blood. However, being loved is something that can be fought for, and you can achieve it if you want to.
In this story we are going to look at what you can do to make more friends and keep the ones you already have.
What you do helps you to be loved
- Treat others as you would like to be treated
These are things you might think are easy, but they take a lot to achieve. Would you accept being insulted? If not, you also insult others. Before you do something to others, whether you consider it good or bad, first ask yourself if it was me who did it, how would I receive it? If you find that you don’t receive it well, remember it because it is one of the ways to lose friends. If you treat others the way you want to be treated, you will be loved and respected.
- Help others
Helping does not require great wealth or supernatural powers. First aid is a heart of compassion, listening to those in need and helping those who need help.
When you consult, listen and give him real advice. Avoid criticism, instead put yourself in other people’s shoes. They will remember that and they will love you
- Be friendly
This is what many are left with in this developing world. You find him visiting someone but he is on WhatsApp until he comes home, he gets into the car and leaves without saying hello to the person they are sitting with. This and the like will not increase friendships but will decrease them. Try to reach out to other friends, get back to old ones, and increase your friendships with those you talk to. Even on social media you can benefit from friends who will benefit you. Instead, be mindful of what you say and how you say it.
- Listen to others
The more people like and trust you, the more they will find you in need of advice and help. If this happens try to give them your time and listen to them.
Half of you listen
You say you don’t have time or don’t care. Listen to them carefully, then talk to them and give them advice. This will make you more friends and gain more confidence.
5. Appreciate and appreciate others
If your child is successful in school and you tell him that you are a man, why not tell your colleague that he is well dressed? Why don’t you tell the person sitting next to you on the bus that they have a nice bottle of wine? This little thing you do will make the person you work for see a heart of love and kindness and will be the key to the relationship and dialogue between you.
Appreciate the good in others
6. Love others
Before you can be loved, you must love others. Don’t expect the person you don’t love to love you even if they do, they will open the doors for you to enter. Love is an act of love, not an act of love, that’s why you have to love if you want to be loved.
Love and you will be loved
7.Try to show the positive side
It is true that no one is a saint in everything, not even the whole day can go according to your wishes. But it is not necessary to show everyone that you are sad, if you are angry show it to those who are not angry because they are innocent. If you leave work and your employer has given you a headache, you arrive home for your children or everyone you meet.
8.Be yourself
No one likes someone who is self-deprecating. Change yourself to be the way you want to be and make yourself the person that pleases others. Be who you are and treat everyone as they are. By keeping your personality people will know and love you. Acting as if it’s not yours has those who care about it, let them change because they are paid for it, it’s the job they asked for, but you are who you are.
9. Love yourself first
In the same way, you will not love others who do not love you. He will not respect you if you do not respect him. Every day examine yourself and see the good and bad things that you know or have been told by others and try to correct them. As we said, there is no saint for everyone, only the more you love yourself, the more you will help and accept yourself from some mistakes that you have not been able to correct.
Being loved is good whether you are loved by your roommates, co-workers, classmates, peers or your peers. Whether it’s your boss, your boss, or your father, try this and improve your daily tasks.
